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Confidence Most bowlers, no matter how good they are, want to go to the next level and improve their game. The bowlers with a lower average struggle to improve their game and some are happy with the game and the average that they have. We all have to decide what we want out of our game of bowling, whether it be the high scores and recognition, to really be happy with your game and have no plans to try to improve, and then there are those bowlers who are not happy with their game and desperately try to improve at every angle. Which one of these applies to you as a league bowler? I asked a lot of people that bowl in league bowling and most of them are happy with their game, except…… when they are bowling badly. Then it seems as though everything that they try doesn’t work and you tend to fall in a slump that is hard to get out of. Some bowlers are never happy no matter how good or bad they bowl. They can always find something wrong with their game that they didn’t do exactly right. Life is too short to be unhappy and we all have to accept the good with the bad, and believe me, sometimes it is very hard to do especially when you have a low game. I think that the major reason is the embarrassment that you go through in league bowling. People wonder what is wrong and do you feel good. Hey, you just had a bad game and everyone is entitled to that now and then. Sometimes the bad comes more that the good and you wonder if you are ever going to bowl decent again. Don’t give up because there is always hope for your game. Try to visualize how you felt, threw the ball and how your ball hit the pins when you had a really good game. Don’t just think it, visualize it and keep it in your mind. Now, try to repeat that success that you had in that good game. Think of how good it felt to bowl those strikes and be confident that you can do it again. If you are negative, this will not work and you might as well just give up and accept defeat. You have to open your eyes to the bowling world. What that really means is, be aware of what it going on around you. When you bowl in a league or tournament play, watch other bowlers that are bowling the best. Maybe you can pick up some pointer and tips from their game. There is a reason that good bowlers do bowl good most of the time. The first reason is that they are confident of their game and they are skilled in the sport. The second reason is that they know what equipment that they need for their game and the type of ball that they throw. Last but not least, is that they know how to play the lanes and that is one of the most important things to know. What to do when your normal line runs out of strikes and spares and you begin to struggle. Don’t let this happen to you and know what to do when that time comes. If have to be comfortable with your game and the way you are throwing the ball. The more that you know, the more confidence that you can build up to increase your knowledge of the game. Sherry is the president of the Decatur Women's Bowling Association. She writes the bowling column for the Decatur Daily. If you have any story suggestions, please submit to Sherry at steady1@hiwaay.net
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